How to meet with your future in-laws for the first time 🕰️ (Dos and Don’ts)

Hello lovelies, Hope all is well. If you’ve met the one congrats. Now, It’s time to meet with your future in-laws, Don’t go mess things up, So they can support their own to bring you into the family and not discourage him or her. So, Make sure you read this my article from beginning to end, It will help you to know the dos and don’ts of how to meet with your future in-laws the first time.




Oh dear! The way some people present themselves to their futur in-laws makes me laugh and makes me even want to kick some sense into their skulls... Lol. First impression matters a lot. It is very important that your future in-laws approve of your marriage. 


Here are some personal tips on how to meet with your future in-laws:


1. Decent Outfit: Look decent and responsible. Don't go looking like a slut, rascal, ghetto, indecent, or cheap nobody. Be soffisticated and classy. Look decent and responsible.


2. Prepared Speech: Script your speech, Prepare what to say to self promote, Don't self destruct. Memorize the answers to the questions that you think they may ask you. Prepare mentally to answer with wisdom. Look good but simple. Simplicity and decency should be the keywords for your look.


3. Thoughtful Gift: A gift wins the heart, but don't exaggerate with your future inlaws, So that they won't think you want to buy them off with your gift. Make them feel it is thoughtful of you to give them a gift. Think wisely on what type of gift and carry the thoughtful gift along with you to meet with your future inlaws. Don’t go empty, Go with a thoughtful gift, Remember it is not an improvised visit but a prepared one that a date was fixed for, it is an arranged meeting, So they probably got something for you and certainly prepared a meal to welcome you, So don’t go empty, Go with a thoughtful gift.


4. Self-Control: Be composed and poised. Be on relax mode. Don't be neverous. To act like being naive is allowed... Lol, But be self-confident. Have self-control. Don’t act irrationally or disrespectfully, Don’t talk out of point or disrespectfully and generally just be well composed and have self control. Control your mouth and attitude. Have a good character and self control is the key.


5. Talk Less & Listen More: Study them and don't let them know too much about you. Tell them only what will impress them about you. Let them do most of the talking; While you do more listening!


6. Good Character & Manner: Greet them well, Salute them respectfully. Have table manner. Help them set the table for meal or help them clear up the table after meal, If possible help them wash the dishes after meal. Be humble and respectful.


7. Leave A Good & Lasting Impression: Let your first impression be the best of you. Leave an unforgettable and acceptable loving memory of you in their minds. Win their hearts. Be fun to be with, Let them feel you like the family, And make them accept you as part of the family. Let them be the ones to start pressuring your partner to marry you quickly. 


Hope you’re inspired by my post, Please share thanks! 

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