How to know your SOULMATE (How to know the RIGHT ONE)

 Hello lovelies! Hope you are doing good! This is how to know your soulmate which is your Mr and Mrs Right, Please note I didn't say Mr & Mrs Perfect, For no one is perfect but God. That said, Another thing I will like to highlight here is that this is a lifestyle article so I am not going to spiritualize this article; though my standard for living and speaking is grounded in the Word of God. I said so because a lot of people hide under spirituality to accept and tolerate all sorts of nonsense and abuse in relationship and even pray it leads to marriage which is not right. If it doesn't look right, feel right, or sound right, It can't be right. Who is right? Your soulmate mate and who is your soulmate? Find out by simply reading my article from beginning to end. Enjoy reading...




Here are how to know he or she is right for you: 


1. Action: There should be action to backup the love words, and also respect. If you are not on the same page in this; that's not your Mr or Mrs Right.


2. No abuse: There should be no form of abuse either emotional or psychological or mental abuse or any form of physical abuse. Whoever loves you will not hurt you or your feelings and emotions in any way. It's that simple.


3. No mind games: There should be no game of any kind e.g manipulation or mind game, hide and seek, pretence, silent treatment, or any form of manipulation. 


4. Peace is a must: There should be peace. If you are in a relationship or rather "situationship" that is full of war or fights or hate speech or quarrels and malice or grudge and lack of peace please quit; that's not your Mr or Mrs Right.


5. No self-centeredness: If they are self-centered, Self-absorbed, and Selfish; that's not it. If they prefer themselves to you, and always choose the best for themselves even in little things; that's not it. If they always put themselves first and love themselves more than they love you instead of how they love themselves or even more; that's not your Mr or Mrs Right. By their fruits you shall know them.


6. Future Plans: If they don't include you in their future or make plans involving you; that's not it. That's not your Mr or Mrs Right. Move!!!


7. God Fearing: If they are not God fearing, They can't be your Mr or Mrs Right, This is so important because if they are God fearing even when they feel less in love along the line they will still behave well towards you and treat you with absolute love and respect like they would want to be treated. If they are not God fearing they will definitely hurt you sooner or later, So run for your life. Lack of the fear of God should be a deal breaker for you.


8. Physical Attraction: If there is no attraction or zero attraction; that's not it. If they don't find you attractive or if you don't find them attractive, Don't force it, It's not them, It can't be them, That's not your Mr & Mrs Right. It doesn't mean you should base your choice on look or on the outward appearance but there should be a certain level of attraction bonding you two as a couple to have a good sex life in marriage, It's very important because spirituality cannot replace sexuality and vice versa.


9. Connection: There should be a connection other than attraction. Can you hold and keep a conversation ? Do you feel the connection? Do you feel comfortable around each other ? Can you share anything with each other ? If you don't feel like you are one, then you are not and that's not your Mr or Mrs Right.


10. Inquirie Of God first: Last but not the least; Inquire of God first, You should hear from God directly that he or she is the right one for you, Don't let anyone tell you this because they will not live with the mistake with you, Ask God first, hear from God yourself, Get the confirmation from God even if you know he or she is right for you, Get the go ahead from God directly yourself. There are many ways God speaks e.g through dreams, vision, prophecy e.t.c. Don't let anyone lie to you or tell who your husband or wife is, Get the information and confirmation from God by yourself.


I hope you are inspired by my article, Please share and make it an inspiration to others as well. Don't forget to give credit thanks! God bless you.

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